I think there is a reason for everything. I don't know that for sure, but I am fairly certain. I believe every person we encounter for even the shortest period of time matters. I believe that the smallest of actions or tiniest of adventures matter. I believe that everyday makes us who we are. It's sometimes hard to figure out why certain people come into or leave our life. Or why certain things happen, and certain things don't. But in the end it all works out. It all works out for one reason or another.
It's something special to be able to look back on all those reasons. The reasons for great times and hardships that I have had and now I can see how they have made me the person that I am today. I can look back and pride myself in getting through certain events. I can look back and see why certain people have come in my life and why certain people have left. It's funny because now I realize the people who are consistently my "go-to's" are the people who have been there since day one. One of the most influential people in my life constantly tells me to just wait and catch the next wave. To me that saying means that no matter what happens something else is coming along, it could be good, it could be bad. Lately I have been saying that a lot to myself and I realized that I needed to add something very important to that. Wait to catch the next wave but don't let those who come in waves keep you from catching the next. To me that means that just like you can't get hung up on one event you can't ever get hung up on someone entering or exiting your life.
We all have our sayings or little words of advice that we use to coach ourselves when life throws us twists and turns. I just want to remind you of the importance. The importance of believing in yourself. The importance of always having your own back. Be proud of who you are because you are something to be proud of. Take all of the little things and celebrate them. Pride yourself in hard work, don't take anything for granted and always remember that the next wave is coming.
Little Celebrations
1. Having the most amazing family who are constantly my biggest support system.
2. Being able to run and feel strong.
3. Finding my passions, writing will always be one of my biggest.
4. Finding new music and wondering how you ever survived without that song.
5. Being me.
Thursday, September 17, 2015
Friday, September 11, 2015
Society & Social Constructions
I go to a University where there are 50,000 students. 50,000 individuals. 50,000 people who come from all across the globe to get an education. When I chose my major I thought it was going to be the biggest part of my education. My studies would be all about advertising and design. I would take some math and science classes along the way, but mostly it would be about advertising. But college is so much more than that. Yes, I have learned so much about advertising and design. But I have also started to find out who I am. Being among 50,000 people everyday who are all different is one of the most refreshing experiences I have ever had. But- it has also been one of the most difficult.
As humans we associate ourselves with different groups. We associate ourselves with gender, race, religion, socioeconomic backgrounds, majors, etc. Whatever group we feel we belong to we pick up these social constructions. As humans we are all so unique but innately try to fit into these groups. These groups can be as small as the "basic white girl" and as big as your race. Being among 50,000 people everyday I thought that I would be able to rid myself of these social constructions and find out the most important things about myself that make me who I am.I have found that being in a crowd makes us cling to these groups even harder. We want to feel secure. But, along the way I have started to find me.
Over the past few days I have experienced these big and small groups from many perspectives. I have had amazing lectures that have made me think about our society as a whole and how society has impacted me as an individual. I have met all kinds of new people, been to all types of club meetings, and university communities. It has been eye opening. I don't think that our society is bad. I just think that I haven't realized how these groups have impacted me throughout my life until now. Somedays I try to fit into some of these groups so much that I find I'm wearing things and talking about things that really don't interest me at all. But it's all part of the journey of finding out who I am.
I feel a little bit like I am trying to explain this concept that can't really be explained without experiencing it. But- the main idea is that we try to fit into these socially constructed groups on a daily basis and that impacts all of our thoughts, values, morals, and daily activities. It's not like I'm sitting here thinking I'm going to be like no one else in the world. I'm sitting here pushing myself to think outside of these groups that I have associated myself with as a chid, teenager and young adult. I'm trying to find me amongst 50,000 people. 50,000 global individuals. Everyday I find out more and more about myself. I find out more and more about who I am and who I want to be. It's one of the most surreal experiences. It's so amazing to feel like everyday I learn more about the world and gain a new perspective at every stage of this journey. Let today be a day where you let you be you. Take a risk and meet people you may think you have nothing in common with. Go somewhere you've never been before. Don't let society dominate your thoughts. Just be you, because YOU are amazing.
"You can construct the character of a man and his age not only from what he does and says, but from what he fails to say and do." - Norman Douglas
"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment." Ralph Waldo Emerson
"You are you. Now isn't that pleasant?" - Dr. Seuss
As humans we associate ourselves with different groups. We associate ourselves with gender, race, religion, socioeconomic backgrounds, majors, etc. Whatever group we feel we belong to we pick up these social constructions. As humans we are all so unique but innately try to fit into these groups. These groups can be as small as the "basic white girl" and as big as your race. Being among 50,000 people everyday I thought that I would be able to rid myself of these social constructions and find out the most important things about myself that make me who I am.I have found that being in a crowd makes us cling to these groups even harder. We want to feel secure. But, along the way I have started to find me.
Over the past few days I have experienced these big and small groups from many perspectives. I have had amazing lectures that have made me think about our society as a whole and how society has impacted me as an individual. I have met all kinds of new people, been to all types of club meetings, and university communities. It has been eye opening. I don't think that our society is bad. I just think that I haven't realized how these groups have impacted me throughout my life until now. Somedays I try to fit into some of these groups so much that I find I'm wearing things and talking about things that really don't interest me at all. But it's all part of the journey of finding out who I am.
I feel a little bit like I am trying to explain this concept that can't really be explained without experiencing it. But- the main idea is that we try to fit into these socially constructed groups on a daily basis and that impacts all of our thoughts, values, morals, and daily activities. It's not like I'm sitting here thinking I'm going to be like no one else in the world. I'm sitting here pushing myself to think outside of these groups that I have associated myself with as a chid, teenager and young adult. I'm trying to find me amongst 50,000 people. 50,000 global individuals. Everyday I find out more and more about myself. I find out more and more about who I am and who I want to be. It's one of the most surreal experiences. It's so amazing to feel like everyday I learn more about the world and gain a new perspective at every stage of this journey. Let today be a day where you let you be you. Take a risk and meet people you may think you have nothing in common with. Go somewhere you've never been before. Don't let society dominate your thoughts. Just be you, because YOU are amazing.
"You can construct the character of a man and his age not only from what he does and says, but from what he fails to say and do." - Norman Douglas
"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment." Ralph Waldo Emerson
"You are you. Now isn't that pleasant?" - Dr. Seuss
Tuesday, August 11, 2015
adventure.
Travel enriches our souls. Meeting people from all over the world reminds us just how large life is. We learn about new backgrounds. We hear stories and see things we never knew existed. Sometimes walking around aimlessly in a city we've never been to before is all it takes to remember how much is out there socially, physically and culturally. The new father you met on a fishing boat who sailed in torrential storms to Hawaii, the little girl in the airport getting off the plane and running into her moms arms, or the frazzled lady you saw playing 15 different instruments in the park to make a few extra dollars. Everyone has a different story. All have had their own adventure and each chasing their own dream.
But most importantly to me travel inspires me to be the person I am. To be confident in my dreams and that finding adventure is something I constantly crave. It doesn't make me feel guilty for being fortunate but instead grateful for the experiences I have had. Travel is about exploring everything the world has to offer. Even after long flight delays, eating out every meal, and being cramped in a tiny rental car I still constantly crave to fulfill this craving at every corner of the world. No matter how big or small the next corner is, I'll find adventure.
I thought about writing out a list of the adventures that I want to take next. But, I truly think the best adventures come when we least expect them to.
Also, thanks to the people who inspire me to keep writing and adventuring. So lucky to have such great people in my life.
Monday, May 4, 2015
Just Good Things..
"It might take a year. It might take a day. But what's mean to be will always find a way."
This year was one of the biggest changes I've ever experienced in my life. Actually, it was the biggest change I have ever experienced in my life. It was filled with lots of good times and some rough patches. But, looking back I wouldn't change a thing. I wouldn't change a person I met and I wouldn't change a thing I did. I believe that this year was supposed to work out exactly the way it did. And for that I believe I am one of the luckiest people in the entire world.
Reflecting on some of the people I met I strongly believe that I met some of my best friends. Being thrown into a dorm with a mix of people from all over the county (and world). People who have come from all backgrounds, cultures, and religions is truly a blessing. Yes, there is some head butting. But I learned to realize that that's life and you're never going to get along with everyone no matter how hard you try. I met some of my best friends in some of the most unexpected ways. I met people that I never knew would be so important to me. People that I never thought would turn out to help me embrace this year and all that college has to offer. And if you're reading this you know exactly who you are and I can't thank you enough for pushing me to be the person that I am and the person that I am becoming.
Being pushed so far out of my comfort zone so many times truly has been a blessing in disguise. I believe that because of all these times where I was walking in blind to situations and scared out of my mind that I now am a more confident, well-rounded, independent person. I am pleased to announce that because of me taking a shot in the dark I am now officially going to be the Assistant Editor-in-Chief of MSU's HerCampus. I am also pleased to announce that I will be a PR/Marketing intern at the Grand Rapid's Children's museum this summer. Both of these things happened because I just went for it.
Immersion in different cultures is something that I knew was going to happen at MSU. But, I didn't expect it to be to this extent. I have meet people of all religions, cultures, races, sexual orientation, socioeconomic backgrounds.. I could go on and on. Those experiences are just part of the daily routine. It is a blessing to go to a University where so many people call home. Anyone who knows me knows that I love culture and have this aching to travel the world and experience new things. Being here at MSU has only added more fuel to that fire.
All in all I couldn't have asked for anything different. I wouldn't have wanted one day to be different. I wouldn't have change one person that I met. I am so grateful to have had such a wonderful experience here. Thank you to all of you who have made this year such a breathe of fresh air and glimpse into the future.
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| Five for Fighting Concert |
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| St. Patty's Day at MSU |
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| Hammocking along the Red Cedar River |
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| Carly's track meet at MSU |
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| Riverboat 2015 |
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| 2015-2016 Roomies |
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| The Big Lake |
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| Sleeping Bear National Lakeshore |
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| Spring Break Jackson Hole, WY |
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| Grand Haven, MI |
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| Sushi for the first time |
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| Home for Christmas |
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| A writer excited for free newspapers |
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| "Up North" |
Monday, April 20, 2015
Monday's Are For Coffee, Blueberry Muffins and Blogging
"Don't look at the future as anything else but the future."
Friday, April 17, 2015
Go Ride Your Bike.
Hey All!
First off, thank you to everyone who reads my blog. When I get notifications about how many page views I have every day I can't help but smile. Writing for an audience who continues to read is a huge blessing. So, thank you. I appreciate all of you.
Secondly, it's a beautiful day. Michigan State is filled with students outside just happy to be alive. It's such a refreshing feeling. Now, I could go on to write about all of these things that I am thankful for and how inspiring it has been to experience new things on a daily basis. But, I have been blogging about that A LOT lately. So I decided to switch things up.
I am a huge soccer fan. I fell in love with the game when I was first old enough to play sports. And ever since then it has always been something that has been an extreme passion of mine. In fact, when I was a preteen I used to spend hours looking up soccer quotes and motivational sayings. I used to type them up and print them off so I could tape them up on my door. And after a while the entire door was filled. So even during my extreme obsession with soccer phase I was still in love with words. And as the weather gets nice and summer is approaching I thought it would be suiting to share some motivational workout quotes. So once you read these I expect all of you to get up and get outside. Whether it's going on a bike ride or training for a marathon it's important for all of us to be active. With that, enjoy!
xo
Shelby
1. "I do not think that there is any other quality so essential to success of any kind as the quality of perseverance. It overcomes almost everything, even nature."
- John Rockefeller
First off, thank you to everyone who reads my blog. When I get notifications about how many page views I have every day I can't help but smile. Writing for an audience who continues to read is a huge blessing. So, thank you. I appreciate all of you.
Secondly, it's a beautiful day. Michigan State is filled with students outside just happy to be alive. It's such a refreshing feeling. Now, I could go on to write about all of these things that I am thankful for and how inspiring it has been to experience new things on a daily basis. But, I have been blogging about that A LOT lately. So I decided to switch things up.
I am a huge soccer fan. I fell in love with the game when I was first old enough to play sports. And ever since then it has always been something that has been an extreme passion of mine. In fact, when I was a preteen I used to spend hours looking up soccer quotes and motivational sayings. I used to type them up and print them off so I could tape them up on my door. And after a while the entire door was filled. So even during my extreme obsession with soccer phase I was still in love with words. And as the weather gets nice and summer is approaching I thought it would be suiting to share some motivational workout quotes. So once you read these I expect all of you to get up and get outside. Whether it's going on a bike ride or training for a marathon it's important for all of us to be active. With that, enjoy!
xo
Shelby
1. "I do not think that there is any other quality so essential to success of any kind as the quality of perseverance. It overcomes almost everything, even nature."
- John Rockefeller
2. "Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will."
- Gandhi
3. "Energy & persistence conquer all things."
- Ben Franklin
4. "I've missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. Twenty-six times, I've been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed."
- Michael Jordan
5. "Strength does not come from winning. Your struggles develop your strengths. When you go through hardships and decide not to surrender, that is strength."
- Arnold Schwarzenegger
Monday, April 13, 2015
Sometimes Cliches are Spot On..
Happy Monday to you!
Realized that I haven't posted in a while. Research papers, exams, and classes have truly been taking up lots of my free time that I wish I could be writing for all of you. However- I have been writing in my journal almost every night. And the past couple entires have had one common theme, they are all about this crazy adventure that my life is on right now. SO- my post today is kind of a summary of what has been on my mind.
Life is a journey. Everyone knows that.. we've all heard this, seen this, and said this countless times in our lives. It's a phrase that is so mainstream that we often dismiss the meaning because it seems like at first glance the only thing it's good for is sayings on travel coffee mugs and magnets you buy as gifts for people you don't really know. But this year I have found that this saying means more than just a few words I've heard my entire life. Those four words truly define the adventure that I have been on this year. Full of new things every single day. New struggles, new celebrations, new faces, and new experiences. So- if I had to sum it up, life is a journey seems about right. There has been adventures in this journey where I have simply stopped and taken everything in and felt so alive. I think it is important for everyone to have these moments at least once a day. Whether it's pushing yourself to do something outside your comfort zone or doing something for the millionth time, it's important. When you have these moments, take a second and just take everything in. And then when the moment disappears remember that those moments will continue to come back on this crazy journey. Remember to do things that make you happy. Remember that a journey is full of craziness and a few bad moments doesn't mean that things are over. And a few good moments doesn't mean things won't ever get bad again.
This Monday I challenge you to do something that makes you feel alive. Something that makes you stop and realize that you are so lucky to be on this crazy journey we call life. Do something that you haven't done in years, or something you did yesterday. Just do something that makes you happy to be alive, because life truly is something special.
Much Love To All.
Song of the Day: Fight Song by Rachel Platten
Realized that I haven't posted in a while. Research papers, exams, and classes have truly been taking up lots of my free time that I wish I could be writing for all of you. However- I have been writing in my journal almost every night. And the past couple entires have had one common theme, they are all about this crazy adventure that my life is on right now. SO- my post today is kind of a summary of what has been on my mind.
Life is a journey. Everyone knows that.. we've all heard this, seen this, and said this countless times in our lives. It's a phrase that is so mainstream that we often dismiss the meaning because it seems like at first glance the only thing it's good for is sayings on travel coffee mugs and magnets you buy as gifts for people you don't really know. But this year I have found that this saying means more than just a few words I've heard my entire life. Those four words truly define the adventure that I have been on this year. Full of new things every single day. New struggles, new celebrations, new faces, and new experiences. So- if I had to sum it up, life is a journey seems about right. There has been adventures in this journey where I have simply stopped and taken everything in and felt so alive. I think it is important for everyone to have these moments at least once a day. Whether it's pushing yourself to do something outside your comfort zone or doing something for the millionth time, it's important. When you have these moments, take a second and just take everything in. And then when the moment disappears remember that those moments will continue to come back on this crazy journey. Remember to do things that make you happy. Remember that a journey is full of craziness and a few bad moments doesn't mean that things are over. And a few good moments doesn't mean things won't ever get bad again.
This Monday I challenge you to do something that makes you feel alive. Something that makes you stop and realize that you are so lucky to be on this crazy journey we call life. Do something that you haven't done in years, or something you did yesterday. Just do something that makes you happy to be alive, because life truly is something special.
Much Love To All.
Song of the Day: Fight Song by Rachel Platten
Friday, March 20, 2015
Reflection
Hey All!
I apologize for the lack of posts. It has been a bust (and fun) last couple weeks. Over Spring Break, I went to Jackson Hole, WY. It was a 33 hour long bus ride both ways. But- it was so worth it. I met some great people and made some great memories. Now, it's back to the real world as classes are coming on full force as the semester has only 7 weeks left. However, as busy as everything is right now I STILL find that is extremely important to take time out to write. I am so blessed to have this blog and to be able to have such amazing readers. Today, I wanted to talk about some of the highlights that I have had this year being a student at Michigan State University.
1. Move in day. Moving in was too much packing and unpacking (and shoving things to fit in the car). However, that day when I met my roommate I never knew that I would be making a life long friend. I am so lucky to have a roommate to come home to every night and just laugh with. We have been figuring out this crazy title of being a 'college kid' together. Some nights we can't stop chattering and some days we just want to sit there in each other's company. I am so blessed to have such an amazing roommate after hearing so many terrible stories from people.
2. The first football game. I have gone to MSU football games since I was little. But going into the stadium as a student and seeing thousands of other students all standing next to you chanting for the same team is something I can't even put into words. No matter how diverse this university is all of the students have one thing in common, they love their school. I remember being on tours and going to orientation and students saying how much they love their school. I believed them a little, but I thought most of it was an act. But, now I truly do understand how much MSU means to them and how amazing of a school it is.
3. Surprising my sisters. I didn't come home for a couple of months. I was in love with MSU, I never wanted to leave. However, one weekend I went home it was the first time I had all year. I went into the girl's swimming locker room to surprise my sister. And when I did, it was a rush of emotions. My sister is my very best friend and not seeing her for the longest period of time we've ever been apart was hard. We gave each other the biggest hug and both started crying. I wouldn't be the person I am today without her. Then, we went to surprise my little sister. And being a 3rd born she doesn't get too wrapped up in things. But, we all again started crying being reunited. It's hard to realize how much of an affect we have all had on each other up until this year. I guess absence truly does make the heart grow fonder.
4. Meeting new people. I have meet so many new people here I couldn't even tell you all of their names. But, there's a couple that I know I will be friends with until the end of time. I met my best friend here and I am so blessed to be able to have such an amazing friendship so early into college. I have learned so much about myself this year and I know that she is most of the reason why I have. Whether it's going out and meeting new people or sitting together for hours just talking about life I am so blessed. AND so blessed that I am living with my two best friends next year.
5. Spring Break. It's hard to reflect on every single event that happened this year, because there truly has been so many amazing ones. However, because Spring Break just happened. I truly can say it was one of the best weeks of my life. I am eager to travel everywhere. And even when I get to travel to Wyoming to ski for a week with my best friends it makes me feel so much lighter about life. Seeing new people and experiencing new things is what is the biggest part of making us grow as people.
This year has been a crazy one-- but it isn't over yet. I am so blessed to have such amazing people in my life and given so many amazing opportunities. I know that no matter where this path I am on is leading me, I know it is the right one.
xoxo
Shelby
Quote of the Day: "Exist on your own terms. That is all." -Dau Voire
I apologize for the lack of posts. It has been a bust (and fun) last couple weeks. Over Spring Break, I went to Jackson Hole, WY. It was a 33 hour long bus ride both ways. But- it was so worth it. I met some great people and made some great memories. Now, it's back to the real world as classes are coming on full force as the semester has only 7 weeks left. However, as busy as everything is right now I STILL find that is extremely important to take time out to write. I am so blessed to have this blog and to be able to have such amazing readers. Today, I wanted to talk about some of the highlights that I have had this year being a student at Michigan State University.
1. Move in day. Moving in was too much packing and unpacking (and shoving things to fit in the car). However, that day when I met my roommate I never knew that I would be making a life long friend. I am so lucky to have a roommate to come home to every night and just laugh with. We have been figuring out this crazy title of being a 'college kid' together. Some nights we can't stop chattering and some days we just want to sit there in each other's company. I am so blessed to have such an amazing roommate after hearing so many terrible stories from people.
2. The first football game. I have gone to MSU football games since I was little. But going into the stadium as a student and seeing thousands of other students all standing next to you chanting for the same team is something I can't even put into words. No matter how diverse this university is all of the students have one thing in common, they love their school. I remember being on tours and going to orientation and students saying how much they love their school. I believed them a little, but I thought most of it was an act. But, now I truly do understand how much MSU means to them and how amazing of a school it is.
3. Surprising my sisters. I didn't come home for a couple of months. I was in love with MSU, I never wanted to leave. However, one weekend I went home it was the first time I had all year. I went into the girl's swimming locker room to surprise my sister. And when I did, it was a rush of emotions. My sister is my very best friend and not seeing her for the longest period of time we've ever been apart was hard. We gave each other the biggest hug and both started crying. I wouldn't be the person I am today without her. Then, we went to surprise my little sister. And being a 3rd born she doesn't get too wrapped up in things. But, we all again started crying being reunited. It's hard to realize how much of an affect we have all had on each other up until this year. I guess absence truly does make the heart grow fonder.
4. Meeting new people. I have meet so many new people here I couldn't even tell you all of their names. But, there's a couple that I know I will be friends with until the end of time. I met my best friend here and I am so blessed to be able to have such an amazing friendship so early into college. I have learned so much about myself this year and I know that she is most of the reason why I have. Whether it's going out and meeting new people or sitting together for hours just talking about life I am so blessed. AND so blessed that I am living with my two best friends next year.
5. Spring Break. It's hard to reflect on every single event that happened this year, because there truly has been so many amazing ones. However, because Spring Break just happened. I truly can say it was one of the best weeks of my life. I am eager to travel everywhere. And even when I get to travel to Wyoming to ski for a week with my best friends it makes me feel so much lighter about life. Seeing new people and experiencing new things is what is the biggest part of making us grow as people.
This year has been a crazy one-- but it isn't over yet. I am so blessed to have such amazing people in my life and given so many amazing opportunities. I know that no matter where this path I am on is leading me, I know it is the right one.
xoxo
Shelby
Quote of the Day: "Exist on your own terms. That is all." -Dau Voire
Wednesday, February 25, 2015
Monday, February 23, 2015
I Bet Your Phone is Within 5 Feet of You at this Exact Moment
Today I have been touched by inspiration. I have been inspired by numerous people to truly reflect on how special life is. Thinking about how technology and our phones have changed us and force us to not look at our surroundings. Instead, they hoard our attention as we mindlessly scroll through our news feed and check our emails. Life is something that is happening around us all the time, and sometimes we miss out on the best moments simply because of that darn device sitting at least 5 feet from you right now.
All of these thoughts about life have forced me to think about the moments in my life where I have truly felt alive. Moments that are so cliche they seem fake. However, those moments are times where every single part of my body has literally felt on fire. It's moments where I can feel the energy in my soul. Times where I just want to close my eyes and absorb every single sense. I challenge you to think about one specific moment that has made you get a similar feeling. A moment where life has felt so real you wish you could go back just to be able to experience the same thing.
There have been multiple times where I have been in a boat with the strong wind catching my hair. Times like these I feel like I'm flying. I feel like it's just me and the water that seems to go on forever. Those moments feel so organic and so rejuvenating that no matter what mood I was in before I feel relaxed. I feel the fire in my fingertips and energy in my soul. I feel untouchable.
Sometimes there are moments where I will be with my friends and looking up at the stars walking in the dark and I just all of sudden feel as if I can't hear anything but the white noise of people laughing and talking. I just look up and smile because I feel like the luckiest girl in the world to be able to experience so many things life has to offer. It's as if I don't hear anything but the sound of my cheeks going up because of how big the smile on my face is.
Music makes me feel infinite. I feel like I can literally sing at the top of my lungs and drive forever. It makes me go back into crystal clear memories. But also creates new ones. Driving with the radio playing way too loud and the windows done is something that makes me feel more alive than almost any other feeling.
Regardless of what feeling it is. What memory or moment come to mind.. life is something that is worth living. Every single second of it. Some people rush around life just going one place to the next and never really stopping to breathe and think about that specific moment, don't be one of those people. Treat every moment like it is the most precious moment you have ever been in. Because when you do, life truly is a gift.
Quote of the Day: "The details are not the details. They are the design." - Charles Eames
Song of the Day: One Hell of an Amen -Brantley Gilbert
All of these thoughts about life have forced me to think about the moments in my life where I have truly felt alive. Moments that are so cliche they seem fake. However, those moments are times where every single part of my body has literally felt on fire. It's moments where I can feel the energy in my soul. Times where I just want to close my eyes and absorb every single sense. I challenge you to think about one specific moment that has made you get a similar feeling. A moment where life has felt so real you wish you could go back just to be able to experience the same thing.
There have been multiple times where I have been in a boat with the strong wind catching my hair. Times like these I feel like I'm flying. I feel like it's just me and the water that seems to go on forever. Those moments feel so organic and so rejuvenating that no matter what mood I was in before I feel relaxed. I feel the fire in my fingertips and energy in my soul. I feel untouchable.
Sometimes there are moments where I will be with my friends and looking up at the stars walking in the dark and I just all of sudden feel as if I can't hear anything but the white noise of people laughing and talking. I just look up and smile because I feel like the luckiest girl in the world to be able to experience so many things life has to offer. It's as if I don't hear anything but the sound of my cheeks going up because of how big the smile on my face is.
Music makes me feel infinite. I feel like I can literally sing at the top of my lungs and drive forever. It makes me go back into crystal clear memories. But also creates new ones. Driving with the radio playing way too loud and the windows done is something that makes me feel more alive than almost any other feeling.
Regardless of what feeling it is. What memory or moment come to mind.. life is something that is worth living. Every single second of it. Some people rush around life just going one place to the next and never really stopping to breathe and think about that specific moment, don't be one of those people. Treat every moment like it is the most precious moment you have ever been in. Because when you do, life truly is a gift.
Quote of the Day: "The details are not the details. They are the design." - Charles Eames
Song of the Day: One Hell of an Amen -Brantley Gilbert
Monday, February 16, 2015
Not So Sunny and 75
Happy Monday to All!
The subzero temps, lack of sunshine, and the fact that there's a whole lot of papers to write might be making for a long week ahead. However, I challenge you to fight those thoughts to bring down your Monday. Choose today as a day to set goals for yourself and attack them head on, make a point to make at least one person smile today and do something for yourself. It is important to seize the moment, but I believe it is more important to seize the day. Having a good attitude and outlook on the day ahead can take you a long way.
Anyone who knows me at all will be able to tell you that I enjoy words, phrases, and quotes. They just click in my mind and bring in such inspiration. My friends and family send my quotes, books, and songs when I am upset or frustrated because they know how words work in my brain. They truly are what keeps my brain constantly working. Reading the words of passionate people who have overcome obstacles to achieve their dreams gives me chills. (I know I know, I'm a "word nerd") So, I thought it may be fitting to share with you some bright and sunny quotes to make this drab day a little more fab.
1. "Find something you are passionate about and keep tremendously interested in it."
- Julia Child
2. "Talking about our problems is our greatest addiction. Break the habit, talk about your joys."
- Rita Schiano
3. "Trust life a little bit."
- Maya Angelou
4. "May your choices reflect your hopes, not your fears."
- Nelson Mandela
5. "Out of your vulnerabilities will come your strength."
- Sigmund Freud
6. "We rise by lifting others."
- Robert Ingersoll
7. "If you don't imagine, nothing ever happens at all."
- John Green
8. "Educating the mind without educating the heart is no education at all.''
- Aristotle
9. "I am the one who has to die when it is time for me to die, so let me live the way I want to."
- Jimi Hendrix
10. "I have no special talent. I am only passionately curious."
- Albert Einstein
Seize theMoment Day!!
The subzero temps, lack of sunshine, and the fact that there's a whole lot of papers to write might be making for a long week ahead. However, I challenge you to fight those thoughts to bring down your Monday. Choose today as a day to set goals for yourself and attack them head on, make a point to make at least one person smile today and do something for yourself. It is important to seize the moment, but I believe it is more important to seize the day. Having a good attitude and outlook on the day ahead can take you a long way.
Anyone who knows me at all will be able to tell you that I enjoy words, phrases, and quotes. They just click in my mind and bring in such inspiration. My friends and family send my quotes, books, and songs when I am upset or frustrated because they know how words work in my brain. They truly are what keeps my brain constantly working. Reading the words of passionate people who have overcome obstacles to achieve their dreams gives me chills. (I know I know, I'm a "word nerd") So, I thought it may be fitting to share with you some bright and sunny quotes to make this drab day a little more fab.
1. "Find something you are passionate about and keep tremendously interested in it."
- Julia Child
2. "Talking about our problems is our greatest addiction. Break the habit, talk about your joys."
- Rita Schiano
3. "Trust life a little bit."
- Maya Angelou
4. "May your choices reflect your hopes, not your fears."
- Nelson Mandela
5. "Out of your vulnerabilities will come your strength."
- Sigmund Freud
6. "We rise by lifting others."
- Robert Ingersoll
7. "If you don't imagine, nothing ever happens at all."
- John Green
8. "Educating the mind without educating the heart is no education at all.''
- Aristotle
9. "I am the one who has to die when it is time for me to die, so let me live the way I want to."
- Jimi Hendrix
10. "I have no special talent. I am only passionately curious."
- Albert Einstein
Seize the
Tuesday, February 10, 2015
The Sweet Things Get Sweeter
Hey Everyone!
Just wanted to share this super cool website I am now writing for. It's a national website for college aged girls. (But anyone who has interest in blogging, writing, people, etc. should read!) I am currently writing for the Michigan State Chapter! My fellow writers are very talented and passionate. Every week we publish new articles. So check back frequently!
Here's the link: http://www.hercampus.com/author/shelby-komar
Also, I am currently writing a research paper on the comeback of Detroit, what kinds of people are currently living there, and how they are changing the image of the Motor City for the better. Because of this paper I have the opportunity to interview two very passionate professors who are "Detroit Experts." I can't wait to share my paper and interviews with all of you!
Quote of the Day: "It's the possibility of having a dream come true that makes life interesting."
Book of the Day: 52 Cups by: Megan Gebhart {Haven't had a chance to read this yet, but it's written by a Michigan State Alum who had coffee with people all over the world and wrote a blog post after every cup of joe! Way cool.}
Link for 52 Cups: http://www.amazon.com/Cups-Coffee-insightful-navigating-uncertainties/dp/150060206X
SO many cool things going on right now. It's such a reminder that the most important part of life is surrounding yourself with people who dream as big OR bigger than you. Good people create good vibes. And getting frustrated by the little things and discouraged when things don't seem to be falling into place makes the the sweet things even sweeter.
Just wanted to share this super cool website I am now writing for. It's a national website for college aged girls. (But anyone who has interest in blogging, writing, people, etc. should read!) I am currently writing for the Michigan State Chapter! My fellow writers are very talented and passionate. Every week we publish new articles. So check back frequently!
Here's the link: http://www.hercampus.com/author/shelby-komar
Also, I am currently writing a research paper on the comeback of Detroit, what kinds of people are currently living there, and how they are changing the image of the Motor City for the better. Because of this paper I have the opportunity to interview two very passionate professors who are "Detroit Experts." I can't wait to share my paper and interviews with all of you!
Quote of the Day: "It's the possibility of having a dream come true that makes life interesting."
Book of the Day: 52 Cups by: Megan Gebhart {Haven't had a chance to read this yet, but it's written by a Michigan State Alum who had coffee with people all over the world and wrote a blog post after every cup of joe! Way cool.}
Link for 52 Cups: http://www.amazon.com/Cups-Coffee-insightful-navigating-uncertainties/dp/150060206X
SO many cool things going on right now. It's such a reminder that the most important part of life is surrounding yourself with people who dream as big OR bigger than you. Good people create good vibes. And getting frustrated by the little things and discouraged when things don't seem to be falling into place makes the the sweet things even sweeter.
Saturday, February 7, 2015
Don't Be Scared of a Strike Out
Anyone who tells you that they have life figured out is delusional. There's some days where some of us feel like we have it all together and others where we feel like we are just falling apart. But it's part of life. And the days where its the hardest thing in the world to even thinking you even have life close to figured out it's important to take a step back and think of the little things. The things that we are in the process of figuring out. What we are thankful for and how it has shaped the person we have been, who we are, and who we are going to be. So here's my list..
1. My opportunities. I am thankful for the opportunity to go out into this wide world and experience new things on a daily basis. I am so grateful to experience new cultures of people and things here at Michigan State. Without this opportunity I don't feel as if I would have certain views on life and perspectives on the future. Being able to each day experience life as a blank page is something I will never take for granted. Yes, it is important to know who you are. It is important to know who you want to be and stay grounded. But, I believe it is so important to be open to having evolving thoughts and ideas on all things. And if they don't work out, so be it. It's better to strike out then be too scared to go up to the plate.
2. My family. Without my family and I don't know who I would be. People come and go, but my family has always been there. No matter what, my family is my rock. When I am here the things I miss the most are dinners laughing with them and talking about memories. I miss playing board games and getting competitive at Scategories and Catch Phrase. I miss laying in bed with my sisters and talking about anything and everything. Our blood can get on our nerves so much sometimes that all we want to do is escape, and to get away and be on our own. But soon enough we remember that even if they get on our last nerve, we need them like we need air.
3. My experiences. I am thankful for my past. It has made me the person that I am today and I am so grateful for that. Sure, sometimes there's days that are harder than others but at the end of the day going through challenging situations and picking yourself up again makes you stronger. It makes you appreciate the little pleasures and makes the good days even better. Being able to think back on things like running down a hill to the water on a snowy day and seeing the lake is something that makes me feel alive. Driving with the windows down and blasting a song on the radio and feeling like Adele excites every single nerve in my body. Its the raw, organic things in life that make life worth living. The material things, the glamorous lifestyles, the careers and houses, those don't matter unless you feel alive with the things that make this world so beautiful.
4. My #1 fan. I am thankful for this person because no matter what I go through and what I put them through they are always there. They believe in me when I can't believe in myself and make me feel like the future is this expanse of blank canvas that I can throw as much paint as I want all over it and no matter what he will know that it is beautiful. My mistakes aren't seen as mistakes, they are just seen as something that happened. And each and every time I feel frustrated and confused he encourages me to write things down and never lose touch of the woman I am. I am extremely thankful for our experiences. Thinking about certain moments I have had are sometimes the things that put the biggest smiles on my face. I don't know what I would do without this person. Being able to trust someone with everything you have is something that you should never take for granted. On the surface people might think things and not believe in other things but as long as you can listen to your heart the road will always lead in the right direction. Thank you to this person from the bottom of my heart.
5. Today. I am thankful for today. I am thankful that I am able to wake up and have this day. Even if it's a terrible day I am still thankful. Being able to look at things and believe that you can tackle anything is such a blessing. I am thankful for my bad days and thankful for my good days. Being a person who can approach a day with a new outlook is something that I value. Cherish every moment, good or bad because life all works out. There's a reason for today, and a reason for tomorrow. But, you can't think too hard about the reasons. You just have to roll with the ups and roll with the downs and know that no matter what it's going to get better and it will get worse. Life is an ever-changing process.
1. My opportunities. I am thankful for the opportunity to go out into this wide world and experience new things on a daily basis. I am so grateful to experience new cultures of people and things here at Michigan State. Without this opportunity I don't feel as if I would have certain views on life and perspectives on the future. Being able to each day experience life as a blank page is something I will never take for granted. Yes, it is important to know who you are. It is important to know who you want to be and stay grounded. But, I believe it is so important to be open to having evolving thoughts and ideas on all things. And if they don't work out, so be it. It's better to strike out then be too scared to go up to the plate.
2. My family. Without my family and I don't know who I would be. People come and go, but my family has always been there. No matter what, my family is my rock. When I am here the things I miss the most are dinners laughing with them and talking about memories. I miss playing board games and getting competitive at Scategories and Catch Phrase. I miss laying in bed with my sisters and talking about anything and everything. Our blood can get on our nerves so much sometimes that all we want to do is escape, and to get away and be on our own. But soon enough we remember that even if they get on our last nerve, we need them like we need air.
3. My experiences. I am thankful for my past. It has made me the person that I am today and I am so grateful for that. Sure, sometimes there's days that are harder than others but at the end of the day going through challenging situations and picking yourself up again makes you stronger. It makes you appreciate the little pleasures and makes the good days even better. Being able to think back on things like running down a hill to the water on a snowy day and seeing the lake is something that makes me feel alive. Driving with the windows down and blasting a song on the radio and feeling like Adele excites every single nerve in my body. Its the raw, organic things in life that make life worth living. The material things, the glamorous lifestyles, the careers and houses, those don't matter unless you feel alive with the things that make this world so beautiful.
4. My #1 fan. I am thankful for this person because no matter what I go through and what I put them through they are always there. They believe in me when I can't believe in myself and make me feel like the future is this expanse of blank canvas that I can throw as much paint as I want all over it and no matter what he will know that it is beautiful. My mistakes aren't seen as mistakes, they are just seen as something that happened. And each and every time I feel frustrated and confused he encourages me to write things down and never lose touch of the woman I am. I am extremely thankful for our experiences. Thinking about certain moments I have had are sometimes the things that put the biggest smiles on my face. I don't know what I would do without this person. Being able to trust someone with everything you have is something that you should never take for granted. On the surface people might think things and not believe in other things but as long as you can listen to your heart the road will always lead in the right direction. Thank you to this person from the bottom of my heart.
5. Today. I am thankful for today. I am thankful that I am able to wake up and have this day. Even if it's a terrible day I am still thankful. Being able to look at things and believe that you can tackle anything is such a blessing. I am thankful for my bad days and thankful for my good days. Being a person who can approach a day with a new outlook is something that I value. Cherish every moment, good or bad because life all works out. There's a reason for today, and a reason for tomorrow. But, you can't think too hard about the reasons. You just have to roll with the ups and roll with the downs and know that no matter what it's going to get better and it will get worse. Life is an ever-changing process.
Wednesday, January 14, 2015
Welome Back
Hello All!
Wow- December was a busy, fun month. It felt good to be home and spend time with my family. However, as soon as I got back to MSU I realized how much I actually missed walking around campus and seeing so any unique, new people from all over the globe. I think every student that goes to a large university experiences the same thing. The experience of sitting in a class room discussing environmental history with people from China, Australia, India, Colorado, and Michigan is something that really intrigues me. It gives me such confidence that no matter where this life goes in this world there is so many people who will always be willing to assist us.
Now, I am no way very knowledgable about the environment, let alone environmental history. But, this class is something that is filled with so much diversity that I find myself extremely intrigued in the subject due to the diversity of people, and ideas. I enjoy listening to new ideas and I think that is one of the most important things in obtaining an education. You discover not only the impact of fossil fuels, but also the impact of fossil fuels on someone who grew up in a completely different country with a completely different set of values and ethics. I am extremely grateful to go to school here and call myself a Spartan. These people that I find myself interacting with everyday who I may not have anything else in common with but the fact that they know how to react to, “Go Green!” Is something that makes such a large university feel so at home.
The opportunities that I have here are not limited to the classroom to any extent. They are opportunities that each day present themselves in so many unique ways. I wouldn’t trade the experiences I have had here, good and bad, for anything. I realize how much they are helping me grow and develop into the person that I am and going to be. I’ve realized how important it is to follow your heart and do what makes you happy, but always, ALWAYS work hard and put forth 100% into everything you do and a positive attitude can change your perspective on all things. Never give up on your dreams, never give up on the things you feel most passionate about.
Shelby
Quote (Song Lyric) of the Day: “We want something more not just nasty and bitter, we want something real not just hashtags and twitter.” - Scare Away the Dark, Passenger
Book of the Day: Rainbow Over the Clouds- Maya Angelou
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